Then There Was Light

There’s my yard. There’s my house. And there’s me. The control freak. The one who has a place for everything and everything in its place. If it’s broke, I fix it. If it needs painting, I paint it. If it’s out of order, I put it back in order. I am a number one self-inflicted taskmaster. Superwoman and the fairy godmother rolled into one and twisted like a pretzel.

No job was too difficult with energy to spare. Like a mean machine, I mowed the grass, trimmed the shrubs, pruned the trees, and did the weed-eating all in one day. Then I’d go to work and clean the church/school till midnight or after.

Then things began to change. It’s as if I woke up from a long winter’s nap to discover that my energy had dropped dead, and everything in my world was in total disarray. No matter how hard I kicked and screamed against it, old age has me in a death grip and refuses to let go. I can’t control it. I can’t fix it. Like it or not, I’ll have to learn to live with it. But it’s tough, like slowly being eaten alive.

Spring, with its fragrant, cool breezes, was followed by summer’s scorching blaze, dripping like honey from a jar. We could barely breathe sitting on the back porch, and working in the yard was impossible. But like two old dogs digging for a bone, we kept trying.

My husband prefers taking things slow and easy, while I like to get everything done before sundown. But some days, just getting him in the same boat with me was like pulling a stubborn bull by the horns. So, between the weather, yellow jacket attacks, blood, sweat, and tears, and getting nowhere, I was more monster than human. All I wanted was to put everything back in order, but all I got was a head-on collision with reality.

This summer has been one of the toughest seasons of my life. A season of being crushed and broken. A season of surrender. A season of change. And in the midst of our brokenness, anger, tears, and frustration, my husband and I found a church that feels like home. It’s truly a God-thing because I never wanted to set foot in a church again.

But God had other plans. While I was tenaciously working on the yard, He was tenaciously working on me: my stubborn will, my delusions, my idealism, my pride. He revealed to me my insecurities and lofty, unrealistic goals I set for myself and those around me. For me, old age is a slap in the face; a wake-up call I never expected. A bubble-buster of the worst kind.

God never gives up on me. And he never gives up on you. He knows our struggles. He knows our weaknesses. He knows all our dirty little secrets and loves us anyway and takes us just as we are. He is the Mighty Fixer, the Majestic Super Power, the Creator and Ruler of the universe, the crucified Savior of the world. The Devil puts blindfolds over our eyes and leads us to destruction. God removes the blindfolds and leads us to righteousness, peace, joy, and contentment. All we have to do is believe.

Today, I look out my door and windows with a deep sigh of relief. Not because every inch of the yard is perfect, because it isn’t. But because I have a clearer vision without the blindfolds blocking my spiritual and emotional view. Things don’t have to be perfect to be beautiful. I’m slowly learning that.

The night was long and hard, and I thought the sun would never shine again. But it did, and continues to shine as I stop following my illusions and follow God. He is my light and my salvation, my solid Rock, the only One who never leaves me stranded on a dark and treacherous road. He always shines his light to brighten my path and to lead me safely home.

If you want to know the whole yard story, I’ve posted two other links below:

I Should Have Stayed in Bed!

Oh, No! Not Again!